Monday, January 26, 2009

LETTER

2 a: a direct or personal written or printed message addressed to a person or organization

Letters have been on my mind lately. Here's why:

A) A friend of mine wrote a sweet letter to her newborn niece on her blog (so sweet, in fact, that I cried a bit).

B) A friend in my writing group shared that she writes letters to missionaries and is focusing on making her letters more than just catalogs of her daily life.

C) Our Sunday School class talked about ways to communicate and build relationships and written letters were very late to make it into the discussion.

D) We are studying Philippians this spring and unlike many of Paul's letters, I think this one sounds more like a letter and less like a sermon in writing.

I write a lot - grants, short articles, blog posts, fiction - but I rarely write a letter to anyone. Both A & D above make me think about writing letters to my daughters. With the exception of K, they are old enough to read anything I would want to say to them. But what would I say in a letter to A or B? Would I, like my friend, tell them the things I hope and pray for them and the things I am looking forward to? Would I, like Paul, tell them how thankful I am for them and then encourage them in Christ?

After some of these thoughts, I decided to write blog posts to each of my girls about their names. I've written two of the three and scheduled them to be published on their birthdays. (The next of which is in May, so you'll have to wait a bit to read them.) That's a good start, but there is something special about a handwritten letter, especially in today's digital society.

I think I need to make time amidst all of the other writing I am doing to write letters to those I love. I'll start with A, B, K and J, but maybe I'll be inspired to move on to others that I love. I think Paul's letter to the Philippians is a love letter. Not a love letter like we think of them, but the kind of love I want to express - one filled with joy, gratitude for the friendship, encouragement through the hard times and confidence in who the people I love will become.

If you wrote a love letter, who would it be to and what would it say? The words we think, say and write have value. I hope I can use that power to bless others through letters and the words that compose them.

5 comments:

Isabella said...

I feel a little bit famous, being mentioned in your blog and all :) The letter you mention that I wrote for my niece - I also sent a handwritten copy to my sister for her baby book. I love handwritten letters, and I have boxes of letters and cards sent to me over the years! Your girls will LOVE your letters.

Anonymous said...

my mom found your blog through my blog and she emailed me to say that she loves it. so now your readership is spreading :)

i think mikkee is right. letterwriting is a lost art. i do have journals for each of the kids, including baby girl. probably the one i should take time to write is matt. we have a journal for each other to share thoughts and it hasn't been touched in a long time...

keep writing-whatever form it may be!
aimee

Variations On A Theme said...

Poor Ben. Olivia has pages and pages of fine script, running up in the margins, etc. in her baby book, which I completely took over as a journal to her.

Ben has a few pages.

I try to teach the kids to send Thank You notes, which they enjoy doing. I think it's a lost manners thing.

I have a friend who often sends little notes of encouragement to me or the kids, and it's great to receive these communications.

I'm going to try to write something in Ben's journal tonight. Thanks!

J said...

Word Girl, a love letter to you-
God knew what He was doing when He put us together before we ever even really knew Him. You are the love of my life, and I wouldn't be the guy I am today if it weren't for you. You're my best friend. I am so glad you are a part of my life, and I a part of yours. 254!
J

WordGirl said...

J - what a sweet love letter. I just wrote my letters to our girls (on Olivia the pig stationery) and will write one to you (on different stationery) when I have a load of laundry started. I'm such a mix of love and practicality, right?! You've set the bar high for my letter.

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